Does he love me?

That's the biggest Q's in my head right now...uncertainty coming my way and life's just getting at the bottom cycle...

I am a negative thinker (I admit!!) and sometimes (the truth is, all the time) those "negativeness"
wears me out. Every time, I tried to pull everything back to normal as if nothing hurts me, but still it reflected through my gestures.

Sometimes I felt unappreciated and ignored due to lack of attention. As a matter of fact, men find it hard to please women. Women feel the same way too towards men. I did not meant intimacy but simple daily house chores routine as such. Why can't I have a little help? And why add more to my list of to-do-things?

The truth is that he does love me (I know it!!) But sometimes I have to question myself so that I can create any answer to my satisfaction. But truthfully, his love towards me is unquestionable. Maybe for him, house chores and loves are two different things, unrelated. Unfortunately for me, I see it as a combination that will toughen the relationship, which makes them correlated.

In the end, I came up with the fact that communication is crucially important. Ironically, I haven't discuss anything about this with him, so I'm still keeping things to myself (hopefully I don't get old before my age).

I don't know why I'm writing this kind of thing as now I find it annoying to read it through. Should I delete it or not? And why am I questioning?

Moral of the story : communication is important in every relationship.

p/s : we still love each other ;)

Hot tips for better baby sleep

Hello moms...here are some tips that might be useful to you and your baby...btw, I do apply most of the routines and it works well...

Swaddling - Firmly wrap your newborn for all sleeps, as this helps your baby settle quickly and stay asleep for longer. Fitted easy-wraps make effective swaddling very simple.

White Noise - Your baby enjoyed loud noise inside the womb, so she’ll settle much more quickly with ‘white noise’ rather than quiet. Try static, vacuum noise or a white noise CD. Play it louder than she is crying and leave on repeat.

Sleep routine – Use the simple feed/play/sleep routine during the day and put your baby into bed as soon as you see a tired sign so she doesn’t get over-tired. Move to a structured routine with set sleep times once your baby is about 4 months old.

Self settling - Once your baby is over 3 months, ensure she can fall asleep at bedtime without being fed or rocked to sleep. This means she will have the skills to resettle herself during the night.

Baby sleeping bags – Start using a sleeping bag once your baby is no longer swaddled, so there are no blankets to kick off or suffocate under. Getting into the sleeping bag tells your baby it’s sleep time, regardless of where she is sleeping.

Dreamfeed - Feed your baby while she is asleep at about 10pm, to ensure he has a full tummy to last through the night and he doesn’t rely on feeding to get to sleep (For babies over 3 months old).

Consistency – Babies and toddlers learn all new skills through repetition and learning to sleep is no different. So it’s essential you choose a sleep program you are comfortable with and will use consistently until your child is sleeping through the night.

Source http://www.thesleepstore.com.au/

My Daily Tips

Howdy friends...
Today, my life's a bit broken...I'm in so much tense and nothing (I'd like to say "no one") seems to be helpful ;(

Luckily I got cuddly little Adam in my arms...every time I got a broken day, I'll cuddle him and whisper in his ear that I need to be loved...he then looked at me and put up his most wonderful smile that I will die for (am I too much?)...in a blink of an eye, I'm cured and ready to continue my life :)

So, my daily tips for those "mood swingers" or those with "inabilities to appropriately channel the temper" :

Cuddle your babies or pets and ask for love. You'll be amaze of what they gonna give you next...

p.s : It's just me being emo sometimes...